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“We should put more energy to the things we like about ourselves”


“We should put more energy to the things we like about ourselves, as opposed to the things that we don’t.
– Melinda

This is so FANTASTIC! – Dove Real Beauty Sketches
Sketching a Woman

Dove has really helped Women see their True Beauty…
Gil Zamora, a Forensic facial composite Artist was hired to blindly sketch women’s faces as they self described their faces. And the same woman would meet another person they had never met, and then that person described the same woman, and Gil Zamora would make a new sketch.

The Results were astounding, and highlighted how Women see themselves, and the way they view their own flaws, VS> How other people see them.
I watched these several times while I was writing this blog post, and I came to tears several times…

The Sketches self described were usually less beautiful, than the ones described by others.
Some self described were described as “Closed off”, “fatter”, “sadder”, etc, ie. – more critically fault filled.

But the sketches described by others were often much more faithful to how the woman actually looks, and presents herself, and were more gentle,  beautiful, friendly, open, happy…

Sketches Paired

“Do you think that you are more beautiful than you say?”
“Yeah”

For me this is also about how perfume helps us all to realize our own true potential. Perfume is a part of our toolbox, to share our authentic self…

I’ve learned about my own faults, and my own strengths.
It’s taken many years.

But what I have come to understand is this:
I actively and purposefully choose to work WITH my Strengths, instead of AGAINST my weaknesses.

I recognize my weaknesses, but I don’t dwell so much on them but choose to find and emphasize my strengths, and how to capitalize upon them.

This Dove campaign is simply fantastic, and I STRONGLY applaud Dove for it’s affirmative offerings, and suggesting to women that they are indeed more beautiful than they think they are…

You can see the profiles, Sketches, and the story at this link:



Spring Smelling Radio Interview with Paul Kiler on Local NPR affiliate station, San Bernardino, CA
Spring Smelling
Radio Interview with Paul Kiler on Local NPR affiliate station, San Bernardino, CA

The author

About pkil3r: Paul Kiler, Professional and Freelance Perfumer, lives and works in Menifee, CA, USA. He started to learn to be a Perfumer in 2005, launching his first scents for PK Perfumes in 2011. Paul helped launch Zoologist Perfumes brand with two scents, Rhinoceros and Panda in 2014. Now he works for many brands making their scents, and for his own brands. He really loves scents, makes his own never before made molecules for unique odors, makes some natural extractions rarely used by others, and scours the world for really nice naturals to use in his perfumes. All’s fair in Love, War, and Perfume.

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